Tuesday, May 25, 2021

 

From the Bottom of the Bucket

            “Come Out, Come Out”…Where Ever You Are……”

Day after day
Alone on a hill
The man with the foolish grin
Is keeping perfectly still…….The Beatles

Oh the subtle seduction of routine!  Our minds convince us that the “easier” path is the one of least resistance and in the name of efficiency we fall into a state where everything is familiar and we are rarely surprised.  Quarantine was the ultimate breeding ground for such thinking.  Since we were restricted to our own little space, populated with few (if any) people. It took a special effort to “liven” things up.  Especially for a whole year!

In his book, 12 Rules for Life, Jordan Peterson describes the concept of Order and Chaos, also known as the Yin and the Yang.  It is the idea that t hings have a dual nature and life is a curved line that represents having attained a balance between these two forces. 


  

What makes this idea different is that both powers are necessary.  It is interesting that the Sign of the Tao (pictured to the right) also  contains a small circle of the opposite force in the center of each segment.   The thought that one must have both forces is somewhat revolutionary. Our culture still thinks that the “bad” needs to be eliminated, so the “good” can be expanded.

During this past year, the siren song of habit provided some structure to life. Still, we escaped from the stimulation that comes from the chaos of life.  By avoiding the uncomfortable, we are lulled into a sense that our way of seeing life is the way of seeing life.  With no one to challenge that line of thinking, we became more and more convinced of that “fact.”

What I am saying is I feel this is unhealthy. Now that isolation is melting away, I encourage you to seek out some discomfort in the name of growing.  After all, discomfort is only a life sign that you are about to have a learning opportunity present itself.  Try it you might like it!  Finally, have patience with people.  Some of us are regaining our conversation skills and haven’t had a face to face discussion in quite sometime.

 

Until next month, I wish you fulfillment.

 

Bob

 

 

 

 

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